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2.24.2013

Sunday Social v.2


   When I saw this Sunday’s link-up, I was immediately excited. I don’t know what it is about me that has some strange liking for sharing stories of awkwardness. My life has been peppered with a few embarrassing tales that most people may prefer to keep to themselves, but I would much rather tell them and share the hilarity! Ask any of my friends and they could probably tell you a tale or two about me, some prettier than others I’m sure.

So, on to this week’s Sunday Social! (Linking up with Neely)

Biggest Middle School fashion mistake
   Let me paint a picture for you, starting from the bottom:
Sketchers tennis shoes
Over-the-ankle Hanes socks
Too-short Old Navy jeans that Velcro instead of button
Chunky white belt
Pull-over hoodie that says Billabong, Roxy, or Old Navy
Plastic henna-colored stretchy choker
Big silver hoop earrings
And last but not least, a pony tail with two twig-like pieces of hair on either side of my forehead strategically pulled out to look “casual”

This one does not to the "look" justice, but at least the hair is spot-on.

   Oh yeah, and braces.

   I don’t think much more explaining is required. This complete unawareness for any sort of style stretched beyond middle school and into high school, of course. I’d go into the bad-perm-and-awkwardly-tight-shirt stage but we’ve got more questions to conquer.

Who were your best friends in high school?
   I went to a fairly small high school (graduating class of 120 or something) so I stuck with basically the same crowd all throughout my school years. In middle school, there were 11 of us then slowly dwindled down to about 7.

Kassie, Me, Katie, Jenny, Brandy, Sierra, Eleana, Megin, & Miah in 8th grade

Ellie, Whitney, Callie, Me and Ali senior year
   It was hard to find a picture of “the whole crew” from later high school years, unfortunately.

What was a typical weekend like for you in high school?
   I was pretty sheltered when I was in middle and high school, which was both good and bad. Good because our high school was located in a town that was also one of the largest Meth trouble areas so I avoided that scene entirely! Bad because I don’t have any crazy, party-filled memories from that time in my life. That could also be due to the fact I lived 20 minutes away from anyone or anything (gas station, grocery store, friends, school, etc) and it was rare for someone to make the trek up to see me at my little house in the boonies! It allowed me to create an everlasting bond with my younger sister, however, and become closer with my family. I also slept a lot.


Did you have any boyfriends?
   I moved to MT in 5th grade and entered a school that was avidly practicing something called “going out”. I had no idea what it was until these little prepubescent guys with milk crusties around their mouths from breakfast and too-short jeans began asking me if I’d “go out” with them. From that point on, I “went out” with five or six guys throughout middle school. It basically consisted of not talking, holding hands at recess, calling each other and awkwardly talking for 3-4 minutes once or twice a week, blushing whenever the other was in your presence, buying each other stupid gifts from Kmart, and passing notes. So thrilling. First there was Will (who asked me out during rehearsal for the school musical), Josh (that I had a major crush on for YEARS), Kyle (who technically I’m still “going out” with…workin’ on 11 years now!), Jordan (ugh), and Shea (only one who I honestly think is a great person) were the major ones, but there were some inbetweeners that would probably be worth mentioning. I’m feeling a post dedicated to these experiences…
   I started actually “dating” Garrett my sophomore of high school and we’ve been together since!
The roses Garrett gave me on my 16th birthday

Did you have any secret codes with your friends?
   The only one that comes to mind is “pencil”, ha! In high school, if it was “that time of the month” and we were in need of a particular item that we’d somehow forgotten to bring that day, we’d casually ask each other if we could “use a pencil”. Then there’d be this shady hallway transaction, similar to the Meth dealings outside, where the generous friend would slide the “pencil” into the sleeve of the askee’s shirt and off to the lady’s room you’d go! It worked wonders. Unless a boy happened to overhear you and would hand you an actual pencil, which happened occasionally. Then it was awkward because you’d have to use the pencil in class so you didn’t hurt his feelings. It’d get even more awkward when he overheard you ask someone else for a pencil right after he let you borrow his – “what? My pencil not good enough for you?!” Shit went down.

If you could relive one moment/experience/day from Middle or High school, what would it be?
   I’d probably want to go back to the Divisional Tournament for tennis my senior year and just redo it – attempt to avoid the whole getting-hit-in-the-eye-with-the-tennis-ball-and-having-to-forfeit-because-my-eye-was-bleeding-and-everything-was-upside-down part. Probably worth a descriptive post as well, eh?

2.21.2013

counting.


Yesterday marked 100 days until my wedding.
100 days.
That means today marks 99 days – DOUBLE DIGITS!


That also means…

297 meals (that is if I stick to the traditional 3 meals per day American way of living, which is hard because I’m poor and I hardly think peanut butter on Ritz crackers constitutes a “meal”).

98 more sleeps as an unmarried lady.

Probably 49 more showers because I’m one of those shower every-other-day-ers.

14 weeks until I say “I do”.

3 more lady weeks from h e double hockey sticks.

2 more months paying rent at my current cute little apartment. I’m gonna miss that place!

1 twenty-second birthday (mine!)

Not that I’m counting down or anything.

1.26.2013

another wedding update

   Much was accomplished yesterday! About two weeks ago, Garrett and I registered at Macy’s for the wedding and we meandered over to the men’s suit section because he’s had his eyes on one for quite a while. Much to our surprise, the suit was on a ridiculous sale: pants & jacket for only $200! He decided then and there that he was going to buy each of his groomsmen a suit, both as a gift and to wear in the wedding. We didn’t much like the idea of tuxes for everyone just because it’d look a little out-of-context considering we’ll be married outside in front of a barn!

   He applied for a Macy’s card to get the additional discount but was denied because the car dealership screwed up his credit this summer. Did you know that every three times a business does a credit inquiry, it drops your rating by like fifteen points?! Yeah. Now you know. So we had to come up with a different plan to buy the suits which took us a couple weeks. But we finally made the big purchase yesterday! And got an additional 25% off everything because it was some sort of special Friday deal! We watched the total start at $1,150 and end at $750! So awesome. That’s including five dress shirts and Garrett’s matching vest, too!

   Then we went to the bridal shop I work at and ordered some pretty sweet ties. The four groomsmen will be in a patterned “Tiffany blue” tie and Garrett’s is the same color but solid. It’s going to look so nice! Seeing them is exciting because I feel like things are starting to come together.

   We still have a lot to work on, such as: figure out the invitation situation, complete the guest list once and for all, find someone to make the cake, clarify who’s going to cater, what the parents are going to wear, flower stuff, decorations stuff, etc etc etc! So much. To do. And days are still just ticking by! 

This is what Garrett will be wearing! But the tie will be a darker blue. Mmm baby.

1.21.2013

this weekend, I...v.3


Linking up with Sar & Syndal for another round of This Weekend, I...


   This weekend seemed to drag on due to the fact Garrett has worked the past five days. 13 ½ hour days, at that. So you’d think with all this extra time I would be proactive and actually get some stuff done, but no. I tried, but did not succeed.

   Lucky for me, one of my good high school friends happened to be in town this weekend! She brought her two adorable kids and it was the first time I had held a child younger than a year old in…oh…six years? Yeah. Now I have baby fever. Great. The two of us went out to dinner at my favorite restaurant, Ale Works, sans-kiddos and gorged ourselves on cheesy artichoke spinach dip and other delicious yet thigh-enlarging foodstuffs. Come oooon, metabolism!

Me with baby Owen

Family picture!

   This weekend, I wrote about Sundays and what they mean to me.

   This weekend, I had a nightmare that I went in for the final fitting of my wedding dress and it was ginormous! I woke up very alarmed. I guess it’s the time to start having horrible wedding dreams?


   This weekend, I tried Oula for the first time! Let’s just say I’m not the most coordinated human and am glad I was in the back row in the far corner. I couldn’t see myself and no one could see me directly! Winning. All the awkwardness aside, it was super fun and I highly recommend trying it! I also recommend bringing someone that is on the same awkward scale as you or won’t judge your off-beat flailing.

   This weekend, I finished off the 1.5 lb bag of banana chips my roommate brought back for me from California. That’s probably not ok. Literally as I was shoveling the last of the itty bitty morsels from the bottom of the bag into my gluttonous mouth, I noticed the words “refrigerate after opening” near the nutrition info. Let me ask you this: why would you put the storing directions near the nutritional info for a snack that no one wants to observe the nutritional (or lack of) info of? I mean, how often do you dutifully examine the composition of chocolate? I know I don’t. That’s the last thing I want to know as I’m pathetically chowing down out of desperation. You feel me? So basically I most definitely did not know to refrigerate that enormous bag of probably now-deathly goodies. If I never write again, just know it’s because my beloved banana chips got the best of me.  



Hope everyone has a great week!

1.20.2013

sunny sunday mornings


There’s something so special about Sunday mornings.

The sunshine pouring through the windows, 
reflecting sparkly sections of the linoleum, 
illuminating my little apartment in every room.

First step is to turn on the outdated stereo
tuned to Sunday Brunch, 
those cool, clear voices, 
so moving, 
pumping emotion into me.

A pair of warm socks instantly don my exposed feet, 
my favorite sweatshirt pulled overhead, 
hair immediately up into the infamous Sunday ponytail – unwashed and scraggly, 
but it doesn’t matter today.

Coffee is brewed, poured, stirred, enjoyed. 

One side of my heart feels a slight sting of sadness, 
reminiscing. 

Sunny Sunday mornings spent at home, 
the same genre of music softly echoing through the cozy house my family claimed. 
Those days spent in worn out pajamas, 
coated in a layer of dog hair from playing on the floor with the fifth family member.

Breakfast made to order. 
Sunlight spilling in from every direction, 
no houses to block the steady stream. 
Just trees upon trees, 
acres upon acres.

It’s enough to sting my eyes. My heart aches for those days.

The other half of my heart feels excitement and yearning. 
Sunny Sunday mornings spent in the new home I’m soon to create with my own man. 
This same music will echo through our halls, 
we’ll roll on the floor with our dog, 
we’ll make ourselves breakfast, too.

All the while, 
the sun sending its powerful rays through windows of a different home, 
but warming the same heart.